| You probably thought your thought your
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| | make in this healing process will
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| life and your marriage were going along
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| | literally determine the quality of your
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| quite well. Yes, there were challenges
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| | future life.1. Give yourself permission
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| and difficulties, but you really believed
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| | to grieve. Going through divorce is like
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| the good outweighed the bad. Through the
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| | grieving the death of your relationship,
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| ups and downs you hung in, hoping in time
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| | your dreams and your future together. Let
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| that your partner would see the light and
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| | yourself really feel the emotional pain
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| decide to treat you with love and
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| | and move through it naturally by
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| respect. You hoped in time that you would
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| | journaling about your feelings and crying
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| be able to live the dreams that you held
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| | the tears that need to be cried.2. Hold
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| precious in your heart of hearts.Then
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| | on to your intention to heal, forgive,
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| came the ugly word DIVORCE. You were
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| | and move forward. Divorce can be very
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| shocked! You cried. You pleaded. You
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| | painful for a time, but having the
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| begged for another chance, but the answer
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| | intention to forgive and move forward
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| was still NO. Divorce papers were served.
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| | helps you to learn what you need to learn
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| You were left picking up the pieces of a
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| | and start over in a new way, instead of
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| life you thought you shared.So, now it's
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| | being angry and bitter for the rest of
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| time to go forward. You read magazine
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| | your life! Remember that your divorce
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| articles, you gather books, you talk to
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| | could be the best thing that ever
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| your family and friends, you find a
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| | happened to you if you choose to use it
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| therapist, you join a support group and
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| | as an opportunity for emotional healing
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| you buy new clothes. Through it all you
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| | and personal growth.3. Create a healthy
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| may feel empty and alone, sometimes
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| | support system of true friends who
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| worthless, sometimes angry, sometimes
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| | support your personal growth through this
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| scared of the future.You find yourself
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| | experience. Who you choose as friends at
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| wondering, "What does it take to really
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| | this time could easily make the
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| heal?" As a psychotherapist, I deal with
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| | difference between staying stuck in the
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| people every day who are going through
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| | anger and pain for the rest of your life
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| emotional pain like yours. I'm writing
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| | or moving forward to create a whole new
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| these healing steps for you, because I
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| | life for yourself! If you want a positive
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| want you to know that the choices you
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| | future, choose friends who help you grow!
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